Obviously, if I could wish away my need for a power wheelchair, I would. But that’s not what this list is about. Life is what it is. My life includes a need for a motorized mobility machine. And so this list is my wheelchair wish list.

1. I wish I was obscenely wealthy and could not only own an iBot, but could give one away to all my wheelchair-bound friends.

2. I wish my bank thought about access more than just a ramped curb and a wide parking space.

3. I wish my son’s elementary school thought more about accommodating those with limited mobility when they set up the room for a school program.

4. I wish people who passed me on the sidewalks of my neighborhood noticed me the person before they noticed my chair.

5. I wish there were no such things as pressure sores.

7. I wish the gigantic rechargeable battery that sits right under my butt all day was more eco-friendly.

8. I wish clothing racks at department stores and malls weren’t so darn tall.

9. I wish I could control the weather.

10. I wish my elected representatives could spend one day seeing life from my vantage point.

I’m sure you’ve run into it too. You’re trying to run your errands. You’re trying to be as self sufficient as possible. And there in the designated disabled parking sits a car without a permit. What do people like that think? Clearly, thinking isn’t their strength, but nevertheless, I’m compelled to consider what self-centered, spoiled imbecile would be so presumptuous.

Perhaps, they are having a bad day. Maybe a sprained ankle is slowing them down. Maybe they think they are just as “important” and need to park close to the building as anyone with a disability. Maybe they think the world revolves around them and they deserve special treatment.

Here’s the biggest frustration. They don’t get that it’s not really about being close to the building. It’s mostly about the extra space. Those who have never had to maneuver a power wheelchair, scooter, or regular wheelchair in and out of a vehicle, have no idea how impossible it is to do without the extra room.

We don’t need pity or to be coddled. We simply need the space to maneuver our chair. It’s simple physics!

Anyone caught parking in a disabled spot without a permit shouldn’t just get a ticket. They ought to be given an epidural spinal block and then be forced to try to get in and out of a wheelchair in a regular parking space.

Let’s face it, one of the challenging issues of needing a wheelchair is the time it takes to get places. Whether you’re traveling around the neighborhood just in your chair or scooter or you’re taking the time in a blistering hot parking lot to load and unload your chair.

So do any of you have ideas for how to stay cool while riding in your power wheelchair? Do you carry a water bottle? Have any of you used an umbrella for shade? Do any of you have attachments for your chair that provide shade—I’m not familiar with such a chair—does such a chair exist?

For me, I use loads of sunscreen and a wide-brimmed hat. I might look a little funny, but what’s new about that?

Also, I try to get my errands done early in the morning when it’s cooler. If a store doesn’t open until 10 a.m., I’ll often just try to make my purchase online and pay for delivery rather than be out in the heat of the day.